cross of life

Money, status, family, soul, satisfaction, happiness....is that what you are looking for? As time goes, we keep changing our destination, when you were 20s, 30s, or 40s....sometimes even we don't know what exactly what we want. When the time I am standing in the middle of the road or in a cross of the road.....balance in between is also not easy, may be we should learn from kids.....keep it simple ans stupid! Dear kids please be my teacher ^_^

That's why kids are so beautiful!

peaceful mind

can have a peaceful mind is kind of blessing in life....even just a day. It is not easy for us in such a cosmopolitan, working like a dog day by day. Sometimes holiday not really holiday, right? How to make vacation like an "vacation" is a kind of art...haha

生活點滴...

剛剛出席了一個朋友的婚禮, 一個在教堂舉行的天主教式的婚禮。這些年來到過不同的婚禮、婚宴, 依然覺得在教堂舉行的比較有氣氛都會令我印象深刻一點。30過外, 身邊總有不少同年齡的朋輩先後結婚....結婚這東西總會成為我們生活話題的一部份。"你幾時結婚呀?" "幾時到你呀?", 一些可能我會問人, 或是被人問及的 "問題", 都會在朋友或親戚聚會中出現。我從來沒有因為這些問題而覺得難堪...可能我覺得每個人有自己的story, 只會專注於自己的那部份相信做好自己就好了。 婚姻這個大題目不是三言兩語說得清...當然結婚的各有原因、不結婚的也自有其所以....因為愛、也因為找不到愛, 因為壓力、也因為喜歡自由身, 因為金錢、也因為我可以財政獨立....因為阿媽喜歡、因為這, 也因為那.....
記得今日婚禮中, 神父講的一句說話 "你們相信嗎?", "你們不信, 就什麼婚姻制度、什麼法律制約也沒有用", "一世的 committment" "十年、二十年以後的也不能預測, 一生一世更看似遙不可及...", "只要你們相信可以, 也就可以!"...信念才是一切。在我自己的生命中, 信念、信心、相信否於我很重要, 婚姻制度或一世的 committement 也可能是一樣...
沒有家就沒有國,....一切要由你我做起, 修身、齊家、治國、平天下....不得不配服幾千年前我國的聖賢...

What's our destination?!?!

Life is funny....caz it can have different pathway, different point of view, different perspective...sure it will interpretated by different people as well. Nowadays it is not easy you can find someone can talk with you freely...

Just talked with a good friend freely last week, I love that feeling....we talked about life, career, relationship, talked about ourselves...what we think, our pt of view towards life, value in life....even Buddish...."Tao"....so broad....really happy. Thank you my friend.

Think about Life...think about something....what is our life target? or what is our destination?
Lots of people around me...always tell me that "I would like to experience more or explore more about the world, I want to go travel to more places, may go there to live for years in order to experience more"; "I want to do something that others won't do"; or "I don't care about others but I just want to do something I love".....when the time you told somebody you life target is having a family being a mother or father.....others will think you are so boring, you are not interesting enough, you are not enjoying life.....that's not life....

Is that right?.........in my mind being what you are, doing what you want, no matter it is an "interesting" in others mind...can also be our life goal. Be ourselves be true to ourselves but not fitting others mind only. We can lie to the world by can't lie to ourselves ...

I may be boring in your mind, I may be not attractive, you may not like me, you may even hate me.......I will still go for my life destination, step by step. No matter going to the moon or just completion with your dipolma course.....its yours...pls go for it, There is no need to be a "huge or legendary one" .....but it must be the one being "yours"....

Autmun came....all my dear friends, take care and pray for you all